The Mounties, the Donald, sexism, and the gaps in the message

Even if you’ve never been to Canada there’s a good chance you’ve heard of the Mounties. The Royal Canadian Mounted Police, the RCMP, with their ceremonial hats and red jackets, are a national icon of Canada. The Mounties, in fact, have a pervasive policing presence across most of Canada, although not usually in red jackets and very rarely mounted.

mountieThe RCMP has been a respected police force since its incorporation in 1920, with its roots in the Northwest Mounted Police, which was established as a central police force by the Parliament of a very young Canada in 1873. Fast forward to 1974, just over 100 years later, and the Mounties began to accept women as officers. Although that was more than 40 years ago now, some things seem to take longer than others. Serious issues of sexism, sexual harassment by fellow officers and superiors, and overall bullying and discrimination within the Force have continued to plague the agency. I might add that these issues continue to plague some other police forces, military units, and police and military academies. It seems to go with the uniform for some male officers, sadly.

This week the head of the RCMP, Commissioner Paulson, made an historic statement that it is hoped represents a serious step in moving in the right direction. In his announcement of a settlement agreement with respect to two large and longstanding class-action lawsuits brought on behalf of hundreds of female Mounties and former Mounties, the Commissioner gave a strongly worded and emotional apology for the long-time unacceptable behaviour and toxic workplace. There was an admission that the women had been subjected to systemic bullying, discrimination, and sexual harassment. Commissioner Paulson spoke of the courage of the women who came forward and stuck with the complaints despite being isolated, scorned, and finally dismissed from jobs they cared about.

Notice that I used the word settlement. This settlement allows both sides to forego the additional anguish, time, and cost of court cases. The settlement has a number of parts, including encouraging aspects such as establishing serious changes and expectations in the workplace.

The main public talking point with respect to this settlement was that the RCMP (aka the federal government, with taxpayers’ money) has put aside $100,000,000 to compensate up to 1000 women affected by this egregious (and illegal) behaviour. Of lingering concern is what has not been mentioned at all, except in letters to the editor and online comments. The remaining question is: what is happening to the “potent minority” of male Mounties blamed for the “poisoned workplace culture”? No mention whatsoever. One can only conclude that this group of chauvinistic bullies (aka sexist pigs who engaged in illegal activities on an ongoing basis), who blatantly and shamelessly ruined lives and careers of possibly 1000 women under the protection of their supervisors, have suffered no consequences for their actions as a result of this settlement.

As welcome as the sincerity of Commissioner Paulson was and as encouraging as the directions specified in the settlement are, the lack of accountability of the responsible Mounties is unacceptable. Sorry to say, this is somewhat reminiscent of the protection of abusive priests while large settlements were made to victims using money from the parishes.

donald-trump-with-bibleIt is ironic that the announcement in Canada of a $100M settlement for workplace bullying and sexual harassment comes out just a few days before the release of the Donald Trump tape. It strikes me that some of the reprehensible actions of sexual assault attributed to the culpable Mounties are more or less identical to those bragged about by Donald Trump in the tape. And, to be clear, he didn’t just say he’d like to sexually assault women, he said he did so whenever he could get away with it. He has now removed any doubts anyone might have had as to whether his frequent trash talking about women is just talk.

While it is gratifying, at the least, that most public leaders are disavowing his comments, there are a few points that trouble me. Folks, blatant, over-the-top sexual harassment is not just a women’s issue. And unacceptable sexist behaviour is not just an affront to men’s wives, daughters and granddaughters. It is an affront to all honourable men, who are equally horrified by such talk and actions. I count my husband and sons among those horrified.  It is an affront to men’s – and women’s – sons and grandsons. Do people really want husbands, sons, and grandsons to hear this kind of dialogue and think that it is OK, as long as it is not in front of women, about whom of course you are speaking? Is this the message we want our leaders to send?

Another thing. Women don’t need to be revered. They need to be respected as people, as equals, just as does every individual, regardless of gender, race, creed, or age. This is the message that should be conveyed through the words and actions of our leaders.

And finally, the type of behaviour we have had plastered all over our screens and newspapers for the past few days flies in the face of all the work being done in schools and universities to wipe out incidents of sexual assaults and the menace of rape culture on our campuses. This is a serious issue that scores of dedicated professionals and concerned student leaders are working hard to overcome. Educating with the right messages is paramount. The public dialogue we have witnessed this week has not helped. Having politicians and even some religious leaders dismiss this talk as “locker room banter” is not acceptable. It is enabling. It is demeaning. It is condescending. It is damaging.  It is wrong.  We clearly have a ways to go.😦

Photo credits: pinterest.com (Mounties), http://www.politicaltheology.com/blog D.Mark Davis (Trump)

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6 Responses to The Mounties, the Donald, sexism, and the gaps in the message

  1. jennypellett says:

    Unbelievable reports coming from the US at the moment. Rotten to the core. But whatever happens there will have a knock on effect globally. It’s sickening. Sadly, there are reports of similar sexism in the British police force and army. And it simply isn’t acceptable to pass it off as ‘laddish behaviour.’

    • Jane Fritz says:

      Hi Jenny. Yes, what happens in the US does affect us all and, yes, sadly, sexism remains rampant and excused as just so much talk, along with racism. I can only hope that by taking it to this unprecedented public level, perhaps people will finally say that this is not acceptable either in public or private and mean it.😦

  2. meghan conover says:

    I’m sure glad Robby is back! Nicely written.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      HI Meg. Thanks for the vote of confidence. You’ve got to be glad that this disastrous election only has a few more weeks left to play out. The fact that public discourse has stooped so low and has become more or less normalized at this low standard is beyond the pale. Sadly, I don’t think it’s going to calm down any time soon.

  3. Roy McCarthy says:

    I suppose the only good thing is that this vile (and often institutionalised) behaviour is that it is being brought to the surface. Then if we have enough blokes speaking out and condemning it, standing alongside women who cannot always speak out, then the sooner we’ll move to a more civilised world.

    Sadly there are still too many, even in the ‘first world’, that see no harm in everyday sexism.

    • Jane Fritz says:

      I completely agree that having public discussions about this issue is constructive. And we need the same discussions on racism. I fear it is taking us a very long time to move to a more civilized society!😦

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