Thoughtful Thursday: Awe, wonder, and feeling a part of something bigger than ourselves

I don’t know about you, but when I’m doing something that fills me with a sense of wonderment – a sense of awe – I don’t stop and consider what impact this experience might be having on my well-being. However, none of us should be overly surprised to learn that awe has a very positive impact, and researchers are now on the case, trying to figure out why and how.

Lately there’s been quite a bit of news coverage about the power of awe and the science behind it, thanks to a newly-published book by Dacher Keltner entitled Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. The premise is that the experience of awe helps us lead a more fulfilling and healthier life through physical/biological processes as well as mental/emotional ones.

Let’s start with what exactly Dr. Keltner means by awe. First of all, he is the founding director of The Greater Good Science Center and a psychology professor at UC Berkley.  In my book, anyone who creates a research center called the Greater Good Science Center is worth paying attention to. His professional work involves research about happiness and compassion; what’s not to like about that?!  The definition of awe he’s working with is as follows:

Awe is the feeling we get in the presence of something vast that challenges our understanding of the world, like looking up at millions of star in the night sky or marveling at the birth of a child. When people feel awe, they may use other words to describe the experience, such as wonder, amazement, surprise, or transcendence.

The most common sources of awe are other people and nature, but awe can be elicited by many other experiences as well, such as music, art or architecture, religious experiences, the supernatural, or even one’s one accomplishments.

These scientists have determined that experiencing awe is very good for our well-being; it takes us to a place beyond our own needs and concerns. Such experiences often make us realize that we are a part of something much larger than ourselves; it might be the sudden recognition of the vastness and mysteries of the universe, or our very short timeslot on the long timeline of history, or our good fortune to be part of this infinitely rich and and diverse world of nature.

Biologically, awe remains something of a mystery, but they’re working on it. I was surprised to read that six basic emotions were identified by scientists back in 1972:  anger, surprise, disgust, enjoyment, fear and sadness. I wasn’t too impressed that these were considered the six basic emotions; it seems like any awfully depressing list. I’m glad that list is now a work in progress again, with at the very least joy and contentment being considered. And apparently our bodies respond differently to our experiences of awe than even joy, contentment or fear. Among other responses, experiencing awe or wonder slows our heart rate, relieves digestion‌ and deepens breathing. It’s time for more awe and less reading the news! More awe and fewer pills!!

In reading the several articles that have been spawned from the interest in Dr. Keltner’s book, I’ve been spending some time thinking about what inspires awe in me. The Grand Canyon seems to be a go-to example in some of these articles and I can see why. It was a place I had wanted to visit since I was a kid, and the first time I finally looked over its rim was without a doubt a moment of awe, a defining moment of awe. I’ll never forget it. The Grand Canyon is one of those places where pictures simply cannot do it justice. This is true of many, many places and experiences in nature, all awe-inspiring (including most of the other national parks in the U.S. Southwest). At times it’s the grandeur and beauty that can’t be captured; you simply cannot take it all in – or get enough of it. Or it might just be the unexpected specialness of the particular experience.

The indescribable Grand Canyon

For me, a monthly occurrence of which I never tire is the rising of the full moon over the Saint John River behind our house. I could stare at it for hours. For me, it’s magical.  Although I’m (more or less) a science girl by training, I don’t want to know anything scientific about the moon; I don’t want to spoil the magic. But that’s just me. Every month (when it’s not clouded over) I say to my husband, “Oh, wow, look at the moon!” and he replies, just to be nice, “Oh, right.”  We all have our personal moments of awe.

I can think of so many experiences that bring me a sense of awe. Sightings of animals in the wild, watching their movements and recognizing the privilege of being able to witness them in their own habitat.

Whale watching in the Bay of Fundy, New Brunswick

Tiger in Ranthambore, India

Bald eagles in their permanent nest about 2 kms from our house along thewalking trail beside their food source, the Saint John River

Visits to places around the world that remind us of what people have accomplished in the distant past, of buildings, monuments, temples, and ancient cities on enormous scales, in awe-inspiring settings.

Tiger’s Nest, Bhutan

Macchu Pichu, perched high in the Andes in Peru

And maybe nothing is more awe-inspiring than witnessing young children figuring out the world, as they carefully watch every detail of what’s going on around them and try to emulate it. Their first smile. Their pride in their first steps. Their interest in everything new (except maybe new food!).

A much younger granddaughter looking in wonder at a display in Ottawa’s Science Museum (she’s driving now!)

Since the definition above includes the possibility of music and art, perhaps I’ll share this YouTube clip with you that came my way recently (thanks, Marilyn). This short clip of ventriloquist Megan Piphus having her dummies sing Whitney Houston songs definitely fills me with awe. This woman is astounding. The dummies’ singing Whitney Houston songs is remarkable; it gives me chills every time I watch. (The awe-inspiring part is in the 1:55-3:35 minute segment of the clip; I recommend skipping to her act and closing it down at the conclusion of the songs.)

The bottom line is that experiencing moments of awe is a tonic for our souls (another aspect of humans that scientists have a difficult time studying!). Such experiences are all around us, just waiting to be noticed. We don’t necessarily need to go looking for them – although perhaps slowly down and noticing our natural  surroundings more would help – but when you feel that moment of awe, embrace it. Absorb the feeling of wonderment.  Savour that feeling and stash it away to retrieve and remind yourself of over and over again.

It turns out that my list of awe is a long one. What about you? Do you have some go-to awe-inspiring places or experiences that come to mind? Ones that fill you with wonder and take you away from your daily concerns?

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46 Responses to Thoughtful Thursday: Awe, wonder, and feeling a part of something bigger than ourselves

  1. Love it!! I am in awe every morning when I can actually hear all the different birds now that I have hearing aids. It’s complete wonderment!!!

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  2. Recently, I experienced my own feeling of awe when I looked out my kitchen window and noted how the days were getting longer. I thought about Earth on its axis as it spun around the sun and what a miracle the universe is. Didn’t have to go anywhere or see anything grand. Instead, a reflection on the changing seasons gave me a feeling of awe.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      That’s a great example, Laurie. It’s there for us all to “see”, but without the reflection part the awe moment’s not there. You’re right, awe possibilities are all around us. Every time I see a cardinal at our feeder I am in awe.

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  3. Okay so I am DEFINITELY supposed to pick up this book; this is the second time I’ve heard it mentioned. I LOVED this post, Jane. Awe is one of my regular “go to’ emotions and always a barometer for how good my mental health is. There is so much in this world to inspire awe in us: children always do that for me, as do trees. We must live close to one another: I also live on the St. John River and I never tire of that view…🙏💕🙂

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  4. Deb says:

    You mentioned so many great examples Jane and they are all true. I think sometimes daily life and all that entails shuts us down to looking for even the simplest things that inspire awe. I have been reading about moss recently- one of the most awe inspiring forms of plant life I’ve ever experienced!

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Thanks for this, Deb. I may have to get a copy of this book; it sounds like yet example of the marvels of nature that we pay no attention to. My husband marveled at a similar book about fungi and intricacies of their entangled lives. There’s so much to marvel at that we never even stop to notice.

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  5. It’s usually nature that fills me with awe, and it seems to me that I seek it out on a regular basis…although I have never consciously thought about this until I read your post. Thanks, Jane!

    Deb

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  6. Victoria says:

    Love this, Jane! I think Wynne has mentioned Dr. Keltner, too, and I’ve been remiss in reading. I hear you — that ‘unexpected specialness’ and the sense that you simply cannot take it all in. Yes. Thanks so much for all of this! Wonder and magic…and for me, it’s often in the trees…any type, any time of year. They calm me…and I’m a fan of Shinrin-yoku — ‘forest bathing’. 😊

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  7. There is indeed lots of awe out there, all we have to do be open and like you the moon is a regular one for me. However, this lady singing is definitely awe inspiring.
    Thanks for sharing.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Oh, I’m so glad you took a look, Wayne. Hardly anyone ever clicks on a video link for some reason. I have the video clip of just the singing, but I couldn’t get WordPress to accept an MP4 file so had to go with the full YouTube. Isn’t she something?! And she’s an account by day!

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  8. Great post. Love it. Love the importance of everyday wonder!

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  9. heimdalco says:

    What a delightful post. Like you I have such a long list of things that inspire awe in me. One very simple one comes to mind from about 3 years ago. Red is not my favorite color so there’s very little of it in my wardrobe. I was shopping about a year before the pandemic & saw a red coat that I kind of liked but wasn’t going to try it on because it was red … but did anyway. Standing in front of the mirror in that red coat I actually said out loud to myself, “Awwwwww.” I hadn’t expected it to look so stylist or to fit so perfectly. I bought it. LOL … that’s just one personal experience that I truly enjoyed because it was unexpected & inspired awe. As you pointed out, awe comes to us in small & grand canyon sizes.

    Mostly when I started reading this, way before I got to the part where you mentioned it, I thought of our 1 year old grandbaby – how everything he sees & experiences is totally new to him. His expressions are ones of wonder & awe. There’s a part of me that longs to share that experience with him that is so new & pure & honest. Our memory cheats us out of remembering when we felt that particular awe & that’s such a shame.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Thanks so much, Linda. I love the wide variety of examples readers are suggesting. Now that I read your description of trying on your red coat I can think of a few similar experiences myself, including first trying on my wedding dress! I never would have thought of that, so thank you! Yes, I think there’s almost more joy and wonder at watching your grandchildren having these moments; you’re being reminded of when your kids had these “achievements”, you’re getting to witness your grandkids learning about the world, and, best of all, you’re not responsible!! 😏

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  10. Mary Rimmer says:

    For me it’s Orion: whenever I take the garbage out on a clear night in winter, there he is, and for some reason he always inspires awe. I always feel a sense of loss when I can no longer see him–even though that happens when spring has just about arrived.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Oh my gosh, Mary, what a great example. Like my feelings from seeing the moon (which sometimes is when I take the garbage out), but maybe even more special. I haven’t been able to see Orion for years at home because there’s so much ambient light around our house now; I’d forgotten about him!

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  11. Yes, standing on the rim of the Grand Canyon is way up there on the top of my awe-inspiring list. It’s almost as if you can hear the breath and heartbeat of the earth. Thanks for sharing the video—indeed it is awesome! Henceforth and hereinafter, I am going to be on the lookout for more awe inspiring moments to be sure that I don’t miss them when they occur! Thanks for raising my awareness!

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Thanks for this nice, affirming reply, Julia. For a minute there I thought you were going to follow up your thumbs-up for the Whitney-Houston singing puppets by saying that from now on you were going to take up ventriloquism! 😏 Yes, we should all pay more attention to moments of wonder.

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  12. candidkay says:

    Love to know that there’s a center devoted to Good Science! And the study of good things–so many times we study only the bad to prevent them. Let’s study the good to encourage them, right?

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      I know, that’s exactly how I felt when I looked up some background on the author and discovered the name of his research centre. I felt a sense of awe, seriously! Let’s study the good … and let’s report on it!

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  13. What a great post! I too am awed by the moon and fabulous singers. Flowers bring out the awe in me and many things in nature, as do incredibly well written novels.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Aww, thanks, Debra. What a perfect item for your list, incredibly well written novels. I know just what you mean. Very occasionally you can read a book that transcends being enjoyable/engaging and well written; it’s got a certain something that leaves you marveling at the author’s ability to move you through words. Great example.

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  14. Joyce Hopewell says:

    Great post Jane. Yes, awe is right up there with transpersonal (beyond the personal everyday) experiences. Like you, I was awestruck when I saw the Grand Canyon – speechless, tears in my eyes, unable to process the vast immensity of it. That experience stays with me. Transpersonal/awe-filled experiences are what makes life worthwhile as they tap into the spiritual aspect of our being and take us out of ourselves and into those higher realms we so easily forget about.

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  15. Margaret says:

    Your great post really got me thinking Jane as initially I didn’t have a response.
    The awe inspiring experiences for me are those when I’ve been staying in entirely different cultures to mine. Exploring those fascinating temples along the Nile, so rich in history, so beautiful. Those spectacular sunsets at the Karnak Temple in Luxor and at the Djemaa Fna Square, Marrakesh. Mesmerising, powerful and magic – all about, for me, being present and watching the real thing rather than viewing all the ubiquitous sunset photo’s available nowadays.
    A Bosporous boat tour, Asia one side, Europe the other, whilst being offered a share of lunch from a lovely, friendly Turkish family. ♥️
    Then there’s that goosebump feeling I get when I hear the ‘call to prayer’, one of the earliest forms of communication, audible across great distances. The irony being I’m an atheist, but here it feels different, more meaningful, real.
    It’s about being present amongst all the experiences I mention above; feeling alive; in awe of the depth of meaning and feeling at one with the experience.
    I hardly feel this when at home here in superficial, hypocritical ‘Little England’!

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      Thanks so much for this reflective response, Margaret. Interestingly, those were the first kinds of things I thought of as well, but that’s of course because I’ve been fortunate enough to have traveled widely. And on the religious front I’ve had similar feelings of awe, seeing prayer flags waving their prayers towards the heavens from the slopes of the Himalayas in Bhutan or a painted elephant in a temple in India. Much closer to home, I have similar feelings when watching Indigenous people celebrating their heritage through drumming and dancing or new Canadians from many countries sharing their heritage and pride in that heritage through local performances. It’s as you say, feeling in awe of the richness of human experience. Sadly, our knowledge of the realities behind our own history limits the likelihood of wonderment, but there’s always Mother Nature to provide moments of awe close to home.

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  16. OmniRunner says:

    A few years ago we were in California in the Redwood National Forest.
    Every time I walked up to one of those trees I said “Wow!” I must have said it 100 times. I realized I was doing it, but the exclamation was so spontaneous.
    I think nature and natural beauty is the most awe inspiring thing on my life. Not the only thing, but the most.

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    • Jane Fritz says:

      What a perfect example, Andy. I haven’t been in their majestic presence since 1981, but I couldn’t agree more, and I also agree about the very most awe-inspiring things coming from the natural world. Thanks so much for reminding me of the magnificent redwoods.

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  17. Bernie says:

    As others have stated, what a great post. I am 💯% with you on the moon and my husband’s comment is similar to yours. But my favourite awe’s are sunsets. I regularly stop and admire them and have probably thousands of pictures of them. Those are the little moments that bring me joy.

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  18. Wynne Leon says:

    Beautiful, Jane! I love this line, “The bottom line is that experiencing moments of awe is a tonic for our souls.”

    Your list of awe is heart-warming and inspiring. I’d add to it – I find awe in people willing to study and write about awe in order to share it with others!

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  19. Lavinia Ross says:

    For me it starts with waking up on the right side of the ground. As they saying goes, “Every day is a gift. That is why it is called the present”. That sense of wonder is right in front of us, all the time. We just have to remember to look.

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