We received a terrific Christmas gift from our younger son last week, inspired, as it turns out, by a blog post I wrote recently ( #8 on my 2022 blog post hit list): Figuring out how to lead our lives is rarely easy; I guess it isn’t meant to be. In this post I challenged the readers to ask their parents and grandparents about their lives while they have the chance, and this son took me up on the challenge. That was a gift in itself, but now he has put the ball back into our court; we have to answer the questions!
His gift was two small, thin books, with more blank pages than printing. In fact, what is printed is a series of all-over-the-map questions – prompts, really – with lots of room for our answers (well, not nearly enough room in some cases, but we can work around that). Some of the questions are totally straightforward, others take lots and lots of thinking back, recollecting, and reflecting. That part is really interesting in many ways. Some reflections are profound, some are revealing, and most are lots of fun.
Our two books are just two of an extensive series called I Want to Hear Your Story (you can ask Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Boyfriends, etc., it’s an impressive list), found at http://www.hearyourstory.com.
We’ve barely scratched the surface in our two parallel books, but I thought you might enjoy our reaction to an early question that turned out to be lots of fun for us.
My husband started perusing his book before I did because there was this thing called “getting a turkey dinner ready” that held my attention on Christmas Day. But he started laughed and called out the question he found amusing: On one of the starter pages with the heading “What happened the year you were born?” was the question “What were a few popular television shows?” Sorry, folks, but there was no TV when he was born. Actually, I just looked it up and there was no television available in homes when I was born either, but at least we had one by the time I was 5. My husband, in Montreal at the time, didn’t have TV until his mid-teens. From my Internet research of right now:
The number of television sets in use [in the U.S.] rose from 6,000 in 1946 [when I was born] to some 12 million by 1951. No new invention entered American homes faster than black and white television sets; by 1955 half of all U.S. homes had one.
What’s really cool about this question is that, as completely inconsequential as it may seem, it speaks to why it is both interesting and important to ask these questions and hear people’s stories. It helps us understand each generation better. When he read that question to me I immediately flashed back to when I was 4, living in upstate New York, and a family down the street got a TV. I was allowed to walk to Glennie’s house on my own to watch – everyone of my vintage will know what – Howdy Doody! I can still remember the thrill.
For those of you who were born too late to enjoy Howdy Doody, here’s a sample. Click on Howdy to sing along (sorry about the brief ads at the start)!
Last night – New Year’s Eve – 6 long-time friends gathered at our house to celebrate the end of a tough year and the blessing of strong friendships. I explained about these books and we read out a few of the questions to give them a taste of the scope. When I read out the question about what TV shows were popular when you were born, there was immediate laughter from everyone. Between us we passed our early years in 3 different countries (U.S., UK, Canada), and only one friend thought his family may had had a TV as early as 1947. Clearly a family ahead of the pack! And what this friend remembered was one show … Howdy Doody! It’s Howdy Doody time …
One insightful response on hearing the question was, “they’d have been better off asking us what radio shows were popular.” Funny, people our age recall these things and don’t think much about it, it is what it is. Mind you, we’re the same people that marveled at our parents having lived through (aside from World Wars and a Depression) the advent of the radio and its ability to – for the first time – bring public voices into the home as the lucky families that could afford a (very large, static-filled) radio gathered around this new innovation. We marveled at how they had seen automobiles actually be introduced and become commonplace, and then starting to fly on commercial airplanes and eventually travel as a regular occurrence. But we don’t stop to think about all the changes we’ve seen. I wonder if there’ll be any questions further on in our books about what computers we used when we were little! 😉
But I digress. To get back to the straightforward answers to the TV question, there were no popular TV shows when either of us were born because there was no TV!! Most people listened to 15-30 minute series on the radio, and many of those radio “dramas” went on to become early TV series. However, speaking for myself, we did get our own home TV when I was 5 and I remember lots of shows ( as well as radio shows). Of course they were in black and white, and of course there was static and often you couldn’t bring a show in when you were anxious to see it because of weather or the antenna not being up to snuff. But we loved our shows regardless. That’s what TV was for us, so no problem. No colour (colour TV sales didn’t overtake black and white TV sales in the U.S. until 1972), no cable, no streaming, no remotes, but no problem.
Some of the favourite TV shows I’ve enjoyed reminiscing about since considering this weighty topic (but, boy, are they ever lame when you look at YouTubes of them!):
- Howdy Doody
- Roy Rogers
- Hopalong Cassidy
- Lassie
- Leave it to Beaver
- Ozzie and Harriet (with their son Ricky Nelson before he became a famous singer cum teenage heartthrob)
- I Love Lucy
- Jackie Gleason
- The Ed Sullivan Show – Yes, the variety host who brought into our homes ventriloquists, dog acts, comedians, jugglers, and … Elvis, the Beach Boys, and the Beatles’ first intro to a U.S. audience. Take a look at a very young Elvis’s introduction.
- Mickey Mouse Club
- Gunsmoke
- and, of course, the show all us teenage girls flew home from school to watch, Dick Clark’s American Bandstand, with our favourite pop groups singing and Dick’s audience of teenagers dancing. Ah, those were the days!
What about you, do you have favourite TV shows from your childhood? Does thinking about them conjure up happy memories for you??
I love this, Jane! Thank you for sharing. ❤️ I remember Lassie, I Love Lucy…but the show that made a difference for me was the Mary Tyler Moore show in the 70’s. What a role model for young girls, Mary Richards, I mean. Working hard, toe-to-toe with the boys in the workplace…and so much laughter!
Have fun with your son’s gifts…I love all of it. Cheers to family storytelling! 🙂🙂🙂
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Oh, of course, Mary Tyler Moore. That was for sure a great show. Mary, Ted, Mr. Grant, Rhoda, Murray, they became like family. Thanks for the memories, Vicki!
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Yes! So much humor, so much love. It set a terrific template for me about expectations/goals in the ‘world of work’. Fun and hard work CAN go together. xo, Jane! 😘
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That’s a good way of summing up the message Mary’s show conveyed, although I’m not sure my husband or sons got the same message out of it! 😏
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LOL — I agree. My dad, in particular, never understood the fascination I had with “Mary”, but he enjoyed the saucy banter courtesy of Betty White as Sue Ann Nivens! 🤣
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Ah yes, the ever-snarky Sue Ann Nivens! 😂
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I’ve seen books like this before Jane, and they were a small part of what inspired me to start a specific blog for my kids. I wanted them to know everything about my life so we could really have a real time, ongoing discussion. The prompts are great and they do help to spark memories, or create humor, or both! I hope you and husband enjoy your project!
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Thanks, Deb. You were/are ahead of the curve in ensuring that family history and memories are recorded and cherished. I don’t think there’s any doubt that we will enjoy these trips down memory lane!
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I felt it was so important to document so much for my three. Have fun telling your stories!
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I remember sitting around at a friend’s house staring at a test pattern waiting for Milton Berle to show his face on a postage-sized black and white screen. But beyond TV, you bring up so many other memories—phones with separate parts and pieces, party lines, the guy who delivered a block of ice to my grandparents house, my family clustered around the radio listening to Fibber Magee and Molly, and me engrossed in The Shadow. Sometimes I yearn for the good old days of simplicity and radio knobs…ah…good times! Thanks for the memories!
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Oh, Julia, we share many similar memories! I neglected to include reference to the all too familiar test pattern in my write-up; how could I have forgotten?! And party lines, for sure. Young people would have a hard enough time imagining a phone that couldn’t be moved, and usually only one in the house, more less a party line! We’re truly part of technological history!! 😊
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I do have happy memories of tv shows from when I was young, but I admit as I’ve gotten older I watch way less tv
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LOL. You keep very busy in other ways, LA!
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Great gift! Myself, I was born in 1941 and there was no tv until after I left home in 1959. I didn’t often have the chance to watch tv until 1964, at which time I was totally enthralled with The Avengers, with Diana Rigg as Mrs. Emma Peel.
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Oh, gosh, Diane, The Avengers! What a great show and what a great actress in Diana Rigg. I’m beginning to think that it was better to have waited until that era to start watching TV, as compelling as the incredibly lame early shows were when you didn’t know anything better!
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I’ve been encouraging my sister-in-law to start a journal for her grandchildren and today I forwarded this blog post to her and some more ideas for her to start with. I think she’s on the verge. She likes my blog and my brother reads it too. I’m going to need his assistance in remembering things of our childhood, he’s six years older than me, and asking him to share photos that he may have that I don’t.
You are the best!!!
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You are a rock star to encourage your sister-in-law – and older brother – to get involved in recording their life experiences for their kids, grandkids, and succeeding generations, Rita. If only we’d thought of this, or been encouraged to do so, when our parents and grandparents were alive. Just think of what we can have accomplished by the end of 2023, although you have an awfully long list of things you want to accomplish in 2023! Phew!!
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I don’t know if there was a TV in my house when I was born, but I certainly watched TV growing up, although not as much as my friends did. The TV wasn’t allowed to be during the day, most days. We only got 2 channels (and the 2nd channel was weather-dependent, at our semi-rural location). Still, my favourite TV shows were Batman, I Dream of Jeannie and Bewitched. I remember going to a friend’s house and the excitement of watching these shows in colour for the first time! Although her older brothers were always playing with the colour to make people’s faces turn green…
Deb
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LOL. That’s something else young people wouldn’t be able to comprehend, getting only 1-3 channels, and some weather-dependent. And moving the antenna around to try to improve the reception. We really have come a long way, baby! I remember all of those shows, and especially liked Bewitched! 😊
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Wait till they learn about phones being stuck to the wall, and that party lines existed (we had one) 🤣
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Exactly. So did we. Ah, the good old days! 😏
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I love that gift from your son. How fun is that?!
We spent my early childhood in the Philippines and there was no tv there – or maybe no English programming? It was the early 1970’s and I remember when Ali came to fight Joe Frazier in the “Thriller in Manilla.” They showed that on tv in my kindergarten. Not sure that was age appropriate but it was a big deal!
Happy New Year, Jane!
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What an interesting experience to have spent your early years in the Philippines, and LOL that a boxing match was shown to kindergarteners as an early TV experience! Fortunately, that spectacle doesn’t seem to have made a significant mark on your psyche … has it?! 😏
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Ha, ha. If it did mark my psyche, it’s so deeply buried, I can’t tell. But I’ve never punched anyone… 🙂
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We purchased a StoryWorth subscription for my mom last year for her 70th, but I’ve never seen these. I’ve been wanting to pull in my mother in law, aunt in law, and dad, so this may be a better route to go. Our family’s story defines us in so many ways, and I just love this!
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This may be a nice easy way to widen the circle! 😊
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What a great post, Jane, and you’ll have great fun filling those books, I expect. My favorite childhood TV show was The Friendly Giant, but I also fondly remember many of the shows you mentioned. Hockey night in Canada on Saturdays was a staple in our house. Although we had a TV, at least once we moved to BC when I was 7, I somehow got into the habit of listening to old radio shows in my early teens, which were introduced by broadcaster Jack Cullen. He did 2 hours of those shows at least once a week, I think it was. Dick Powell as a PI was one of my favorites, along with Adventures by Morris, and Our Miss Brooks, plus so may others. Occasionally, I google those shows and still listen. You can find anything these days on the net 🙂
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Thanks, Debra. I’m really enjoying hearing what other people remember. It was my kids who watched the Friendly Giant (look up, way up), but, gosh, I’d forgotten all about Our Miss Brooks! Talk about going back in time, what fun! 😄
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What a WONDERFUL post! I remember ALL the shows you mentioned. I had my own Micky Mouse ears. There’s so much to think about with this post but what I enjoyed most was the clip from Howdy Doody. If I missed a show in those long ago days I would cry & cry. I loved seeing Howdy again & Buffalo Bob & Clarabelle, who was just plain freaky – then & now. I still know the words to Howdy Doody Time … what a fun surprise. I remember Flub-A-Dub & Finnias T. Bluster & Princess Summer Fall Winter Spring. You have made my evening.
Do you remember a show called Winkie Dink & You???
Thanks for a very welcome walk down Memory Lane. I can’t wait until our grandbaby askes me all those questions …
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I know, isn’t it fun to realize how quickly all that comes back to us?! You hear the kids singing It’s Howdy Doody Time with Buffalo Bob and it’s like you’re still that little kid again. I’d forgotten about Princess Summer Fall Winter Spring until you reminded me – thanks! And, yes, I surely do remember Winky Dink and You. Talk about innocent times in the very early airwave days! Don’t wait for your grandson to ask questions; start encouraging your kids. And enjoy the walks down Memory Lane!
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What a great Christmas present from your son, Jane. Like many others we had our first small screened, black and white television in 1953 for Queen Elizabeth’s Coronation. I was 4 and very excited that people came to our house to watch. Some of the programmes I loved to watch are on your list; Lassie (my favourite); Roy Rogers; Hopalong Cassidy; I Love Lucy; and one of my favourites ‘The Adventures of Rin Tin Tin’ (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rin_Tin_Tin) – did you watch that?
There’s so much more choice nowadays but for us it’s much more rubbish unfortunately. ☹️
Thanks for the memories Jane 🙏🏼
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Oh my, yes, The Adventures of Rin Tin Tin, I remember it well. Once you start down this nostalgia path more and more favourite old shows keep appearing. I’m really enjoying travelling this path with fellow readers like you, Margaret. As you say, many people would have gotten their first (tiny screen) TV for the Coronation. That’s a whole trip down Memory Lane on its own. Fun!
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That post has put a big smile on my face. Real memory lane stuff and delightful with it too! No TV at our house until I was 14, but I managed to just about keep up by watching the b/w TV at various friend’s homes. Roy Rogers, Lassie, I Love Lucy – yes! And on radio Life with the Lyons (Ben Lyons & Bebe Daniels). How about Rawhide, with a very young Clint Eastwood? Enjoy filling in those books – what a fun memory-jogging gift.
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And just reading everyone’s comments about similar memories and additional remembered shows is putting a smile on my face! Rawhide, yes, indeed. Gosh, there were a lot of westerns, now that I think of it. Bonanza, Gunsmoke, I’m sure there are more. I’d like to think that TV in the UK eventually steered away from that genre! I don’t know that those were simpler times, as people like to think, but they were definitely simpler (aka more primitive) technology times! 😂
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I grew up rural and when I left home in 1977 we still just had 2 channels, the black and white was replaced in 1972 with colour. The first shows I remember were Bonanza, Hockey Night in Canada and The Wonderful World of Disney. Daytime TV was a never except my parents watched the world series which I thought was the most boring thing ever.
I love the books and may go looking for them.
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Great comment, Bernie. Your experience with TV was not at all uncommon. We lived in rural NB in the 70s and we had 3 channels. And, of course, younger people won’t realize that the channels didn’t run 24/7; we had test patterns when they weren’t on air. Ah, the good old days! Yes, you would undoubtedly enjoy these books.
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Oh I meant to mention that the thing I remember about the radio was the enforced silence when the crop report came on after lunch. I don’t remember any other programs.
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LOL. Sounds like a legitimate house rule!
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Back then the commodity price was harder to come by than now! I know a local farmer who gets updates of best prices on his watch.
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Just like sports and TV shows! 🙂
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Ah how interesting. I think the UK lagged a few years behind the USA in rolling out TV, due mainly to WW2 I guess. We got our first set in about 1961 and the first thing that was showing was a cricket match. The Australians toured England that year so possibly it was England v Australia. I was eight. Those early years I mainly recall Westerns. My one abiding memory though is listening with great fascination to the radio commentary in 1962 of the Brazil v England football match from thousands of miles away in an exotic-sounding place called Vina del Mar in Chile.
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Gosh, I love your description of what you remember first seeing on a TV, Roy. And radio. It reminds me of when transistor radios became available when I was in high school and, as well as taking them to the beach to listen to pop music, we could listen to the Wirld Series games on the school bus. And bravo for appreciating as a 9-year old the magic of a signal making it from Chile to the UK part of the world. We take so much for granted these days.
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I have so many childhood favorites, but Mary Tyler Moore, Dick Van Dyke and Donna Reed are my all time relaxing shows to watch.
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Oh yes, MTM and Dick Van Dyke for sure. And I had forgotten about Donna Reed! Such great memories, thanks for that!!
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You’re welcome! Those are my go to feel good shows 😍
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I think I’m 1/2 generation behind you, Jane. I reminisce over Mary Tyler Moore, Dick van Dyke, Batman, Avengers, Bewitched, I Dream of Jeannie, Carol Burnett Show, cartoon: Flintstones, Dodo Bird, etc. I remember crooners like Andy Williams, Tom Jones, etc.
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Lol. There undoubtedly is a 1/2 generation difference, Jean! I remember many of those fondly, but when I was a teen and beyond. Carol Burnett, ah yes. With Harvey Korman and Tim Conway. So many laughs! Thanks for the memories!!!
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